Several people have e-mailed me to say they’ve heard that Jack Ekhtiar, owner of three Avanti restaurants in Dallas, died last night from a self-inflicted gunshot wound.
Update: A distraught employee at the McKinney Ave. location just confirmed the rumor. No details. Developing.

Horrible news.
But jeezus Nancy, don’t you think you should have “confirmed the rumor” before posting? Or maybe just referred to rumors that the “owner of a well-known restaurant chain has shot himself” pending such confirmation? Yes, the rumor turned out to be true but did you consider whether his family had been notified since he apparently only died last night?
Maybe you thought your original sources were impeccable, but more likely, you and the D empire are damn lucky you got it right the first time. Sorry to sound like such a finger-wagger, but this sort of thing happens a lot on Frontburner. You all post that a restaurant has closed or lost its liquor license on the basis of some random email, then you have to take it back. Tim Rogers claims Scott Sams said something nasty and then has to retract it under threat of litigation. But sometimes the rumors you all post turn out to be true, so I guess you think the occasional screw-up or threatening letter are worth the risk.
I know FB is just a blog, but you guys aren’t pajama-wearing kitchen table bloggers. You are journalists so you know the rules and the dangers of publishing based solely on rumor. But even though this rubs me the wrong way, it’s your shop and you can run it as you please.
I want you to know that I am a big fan of Frontburner and a loyal reader. This blog is a lot of fun and I want it to succeed. So I hope you will take this criticism in the constructive spirit in which it is given. Cheers.
Couldn’t agree more. The traditional rules of journalism should go out the window in the face of new media. I know it’s really easy to press the “Publish” button in a blog, and it’s equally as easy to go back and edit a post, but it still shouldn’t allow for the careless posting of unverified information.
The traditional rules of journalism should NOT go out the window…..
Sorry about the typo.
Neal
You are basing your viewpoint on a fact that the D writers can be wrong. They can not.
That is a fact. Everyone in the world is wrong if their paycheck is not signed by Wick Allison. That is a level of perfection only achieved by Wick lickers.
OK, I was too quick to post. I was running out the door and wanted to get the post up. I called the restaurant before I posted but nobody was there yet. Jack is one of the nicest men in the restaurant business and he was a true professional and a lovely person. I am in total shock about all of this and the last thing I would ever want to do is be insensitive. Looking back, I was.
What happened exactly? This is terrible news. Where is his wife Nahid? His children? Why ? He had lots of friends and family ???
I heard the news this morning from another restaurant owner in the area. I heard that he was found in the lake- maybe on a jet ski. Not sure how accurate that information is. I went by the restaurant to see if it was open today. There was a note on the door that said they were closed for kitchen repairs or something like that. It said they would be open as normal tomorrow. I would be surprised if it was. So tragic.
maybe suicides of the nonfamous should go unreported, so as to deter copycat incidents?
Well, this one seems to be going unreported… supposedly, it’s been two days and this one-sentence posting is all I’ve found about it.
DMN: What gives?
Most professional journalists don’t report suicides of the non-famous, to prevent copy-cat acts. It’s a pretty standard ethical decision across the industry of professional journalists. And it is _highly_ unethical to report rumors, even on blogs, and _especially_ of suicides. D magazine, please, review your ethics and come up with some guidelines for employees who are obviously unfamiliar with professional standards.
Sorry, but I just can’t bring myself to call D Magazine writers journalists. 70% is fluff, the rest is Special Advertising Sections. That’s why it’s so easy for them to throw stones at newspapers. They don’t understand journalism.
there seems to be some confusion here as it relates to journalistic ethics on the internet, specifically blogs. Blogs are designed to perpetuate stories that are often times opinions, editorials, and not fully verified (ie rumors). If that is what you are looking for, read blogs, if you are so concerned with journalistic ethics and accurate reporting, investigate stories yourself, because it really doesnt exist anymore.
And think about it, if Nancy Nichols had not reported Jack Ekhtiar’s death, nobody would know, including I imagine some of his more distant friends and vague acquaitances. So enough with the personal attacks (”ben”). Get over yourself and your “ethical” grandstanding , lighten up after all, its just a blog. Jerk.
It’s not a personal attack. It’s just the difference between rumor and reporting.
D stories are what they are. But they do a lot of trade/favors and such for stories. I wouldn’t say this if I didn’t know it for a fact. Journalists are held to higher “ethics”. You can lighten up now.
Hey you guys are being selfish. This isn’t about you. It’s about our Friend Jack and his family. Quit nit picking back and forth and stay focused. :>) Is this story about Jack true or not ? I am not able to reach his partner or his managers…..and there are a lot of stories swirling around. Tonight is a very important Persian holiday so today it’s probably extra extra tough for those close to him
I heard from another source that there would be some kind of memorial at the addison circle location tonight. I have not been by there today to see if there is anyone there or not. There are lots of different stories about what happened swirling about.
As someone who has known Jack over twenty years, I am so saddened. Our group of friends (because of you, Susan) spent so much time cooking, dancing, laughing, boating, floating, playing and watching Dirty Dancing, that I can’t even believe one of us is gone. Especially Jack. He loved life. He took care of his family. He loved his kids more than he loved his ability to breath. He taught us that cooking is therapy. He loved lots of butter. Most of all, we loved him. He could drive a boat, bring home the bacon and fry it up in a pan. And after that, he still had a shoulder for us to lean on. He was our friend. We love him and we will miss him dearly. We can’t wait to see him again. With all of our hearts,
The Lake Crew
There will be a memorial on easter sunday at Avanti 6pm to 8pm.
@ Avanti addison circle
Are there any foundations or organizations the family has requested donations go to ?
We don’t know, because ben won’t let us post.
Obit from the DMN:
http://www.dallasnews.com/shar.....083f4.html
Hopefully this meets ben’s ethics.
Hi if any of Jack’s friends or family need anyone to talk to, the Suicide and Crisis Center is a great resource. it’s
http://www.sccenter.org
I am very saddened.
Yvonne
I am so upset. I worked with Jack and knew him since ‘76 or ‘77 when I was at Arthurs. I worked with he and Amin at Avanti for years before moving to Lake Tahoe. I have so many wonderful memories. So many “Jackisms”. Thank you for providing me a place to write. I miss him.
I worked with Jack for almost 3 years. I cant belive he can do this to him self. The night befor he kill him self i was there with him. He was such a happy man. I dont what happend to him.
I worked Jack and Amin, his partner, for three years. I was at the McKinney Ave. location all that time, but saw Jack and Nahid and interacted with them both frequently. I’ve just heard the news tonight, and wish to extend my deepest condolences to Nahid and to Jack’s children, should any of them run across this blog. I didn’t work closely with Jack, but I knew that he was a man of many talents (he played piano, was an excellent dancer, and of course knew cuisine and wine) and that he was a lover of life. Also he was always polite and kind to me. I know many people cared for him and that he will be missed.
Mitra & Darius,
So very sorry for your loss. Jack loved both of you deeply, he was so proud of you. His love for his family and friends is what he felt the deepest in this life.
Blanca
Well, I worked for Jack for a year and he was an sexist ******* and his son was a drug addict. Just shows that money and success do not buy happiness.